Divorce
Divorce, explained in the order it happens
Whether you agree on most things or almost nothing, we walk you through each step before it comes, so the next letter in the mail isn't a surprise.
We start with what matters this month: where everyone lives, who pays which bill, and how the children get to school. Then we work through the long list: the house, the debts, the savings and a parenting plan.
Most divorces settle. When yours can, we help you settle it. When it can’t, we take it to a judge and prepare you for every hearing.
We can help with
Temporary orders while the case is open
Dividing the house, debts and savings
Spousal support
A parenting plan, if you have children
The usual order of a divorce
Your case may skip a step or add one. We tell you which at the first meeting.
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Step 1: Filing and serving
One spouse files the petition, and the other is formally given a copy.
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Step 2: Orders for the meantime
If you need them, the court sets who stays where and who pays what for now.
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Step 3: Sharing records
Both sides trade pay stubs, account statements and anything else the court needs to see.
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Step 4: An agreement, or a judge
Most couples sign an agreement. The rest ask a judge to decide.
Asked about divorce
Do we both need lawyers?
Each of you can have one, and we can represent only one of you. If your spouse doesn't hire anyone, we are still your lawyer, not theirs.
How long does a divorce take?
There is often a waiting period set by law, and after that it depends on how much you agree on. We give you a realistic range after the first meeting.
Can I stay in the house?
Sometimes, at least for now. Temporary orders can decide who stays in the home while the case is open, and we'll talk about what's realistic for you.
Start with one meeting about your divorce
Bring your questions and any papers you've been served. You leave knowing the next step.